Best Advice on getting a girls attention
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Best
Advice on getting a girls attention
About five years ago I was ‘crazily’ into this girl. I always had an inkling
she liked me, but I never done anything about it. In my mind I did not have her
attention fully, and if I did not have her attention then I almost certainly
would not be ‘fun enough’ to date. I let her slip away. She is now in a steady
relationship with somebody and that seems to be going fairly well. I am still
single, but I am a much smarter man right now. I know what has to be done to
get a girl’s attention and let her know that you like her. The tips on this
page tend to work quite well too.
Firstly, and this is the most important part, you are going to need to
talk to that girl. I have seen so many guys complain that the girl they like
doesn’t like them back. Guess why that is the case? Well; it is because they
don’t talk to them. They just admire them from afar. Girls, and most men for
that matter, do not build up their attraction based upon looks. They build up
their attraction to somebody by actually talking to them. In short; if you do
not go up to somebody and show them your personality then they simply will never be
attracted to you in the way that you want.Now; so what do you do when you go up
and talk to them? There are some people out there who claim that you should be
fun or what not. You should. However do not try and put on a fake persona. I
made this mistake once. I put on this incredibly fake persona and was able to
grab the attention of who in my mind, at the time at least, was one of the most
beautiful girls I ever feasted my eyes upon. We hit it off and went on a couple
of dates. The problem is; what caught her attention was not the real me. It was
difficult to keep up being ‘fake’ and what have you. I eventually broke it off
with her. I couldn’t be the person that she craved. I know this is a little bit
cliché but ‘just be yourself’. You can’t do more than that. You are not going
to catch the attention of everybody sadly, but there will be somebody that
actually likes you for who you are. This is what you want. A person that
genuinely likes you as that is going to lead to the longest of relationships.Sure;
you could do more than this such as asking the person to hang out and the like,
but I think the two steps mentioned above are the key to starting your
relationship up. You need to start talking to them and you need to be yourself.
If you can do that then you will be well on your way to catching her
attention.
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