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“Why Am I Still Single?”
Bored of being single all the time, or tired of
your previous unsuccessful relationship? You have most likely thought over online dating or speed
dating, but
none of them seem to work.
So, what’s next? Do you
want to bet your life on chance, or you are one of the people, who
believe that love will find them?
Maybe you think your
partner will appear all of a sudden, without any efforts. Are you insecure what
exactly want?
Do you feel helpless to
change the situation? So….?!
Dear Men and Women,
being single is your own
choice. It’s your decision. It’s your life.
Yes, it’s possible “the
love of your dreams” to find you”, why not. It will be fantastic!If you want
this happen to you, though, stay positive and active, pursue your goals, make yourself
worth to be loved and your “love” probably soon will “knock on your door.”
The Most
Popular (mistaken) Causes Of Why Am I Still Single
Excuses Of Why
Am I Still Single
“All the men I like are
already married.”
“I can’t attract the right
person.”
“I don’t have any extra
time for dating women/men.
I am too busy right now.”
“Pubs and online dating are
not for me. I don’t like them both.”
“I prefer not to suffer
again, single’s life gives me much more freedom.”
“Start living with someone
else is a difficult task for me at this stage of my life. I got used to live
alone.”
“I don’t want to confess
myself, I need love. It will hurt me more.”
“Maybe I am odious.”
“I have no chances to find
someone to love at my age.”
Have you heard that?
Probably a million times. These are only your own restrictions. Learn to love
first and stop your self-pity. Get rid of your fear of rejection and change
things for the better, you can be attractive at any age. Love knows no limits.
People tend to think that
there are no nice men/women around them. It is completely false. Perhaps, you
have no idea how to find them. When you are an active participant in your life,
not spectator, you could find someone. Don’t be afraid to try over and over
again. Everyone has had their bad relationship experience. Turn over a new leaf
and go on. There are always many ways to start a new relationship.
Almost every single man has
his/her own explanation and excuses of why they are still single. Some of them
point out their revenues, age-others say, have no time for dating etc. In my
opinion, the biggest problem is the lack
of confidence. In the most cases their excuses
don’t correspond with the reality at all. Many of them are just “victims” of
their expectations and demands.
For sure, there are
thousands, or even million of singles in the world with “their problem,”but
created successful relationships. So, what does this mean?! The general thing
you have to realize is that, EVERYTHING depends on you! If you are looking for an excuse, you’ll
certainly find it.
Listen to only your heart,
not to your relatives and friends. Don’t let your emotions control your whole life. If you know exactly what you want, and
who you want, you’ll draw it. Don’t wait to be approached, be self-assured and
active. Diversify your social activities, attend concerts, festivals or
parties.
Stop taking a passive role
in your life and encounter the relationship you deserve. Draw on other singles
experiences, be honest with yourself and don’t care what other people think of
you!
Conclusion
In the end, what keeps you
single is the way you “treat” your life. For sure, you examine it as bad or
good things that happen to you. All the same, it’s your decision, to be happy
or not, to be single or not. You are the one who choose what kind of
relationship to want, fantastic or terrific. So, instead of complaining, enjoy
yourself and stop asking,"Why
Am I still Single? “
Have fun and start living
your own greatest life!
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